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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 16.06.2025 07:34

How does one succeed in life?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Hangs out with loser friends.

How did Madri, mother of Nakula and Sahadeva die?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

How did the Nazis figure out whether a person or community is 'Aryan' or not?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Making more friends is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Why do most Indian women cuckold or cheat on their husbands?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Does not procrastinate.

What are the major security challenges facing India, both domestically and internationally, and how does the government address them?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What are some things you would change about Avatar: The Last Airbender if you were to redo the series?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Why do very skinny girls get more male attention if it is true that men like curves?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Ask yourself:

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

How often do you watch the news on TV?

That's it for today.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

My cantankerous beagle is very badly behaved at the dog park and always starts barking at the other dogs. Would pepper spray be an effective method to correct his inappropriate behavior?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

In Italy, how do people greet each other when they meet for the first time (e.g., on the street)? What's a good response to that greeting if you're not from Italy or don't speak Italian fluently yet?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

What I need from you?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):